Is chivalry dead?
I wonder this as I stand on the bus all the way home (approx. 40min) and wonder would anyone ever give their seat up for somebody else? I don't mind standing up, but it's the older people I often wonder how they manage, when I see them standing up, and see all the younger, healthier people sitting down. Mind you, I do not know everyone's history, so the younger people sitting down, could have some problems with motion sickness, or bad knees or something, but I fail to see anyone give up their seat on the bus anymore.
Does anyone hold the door open for people anymore? I'm not just implying this for men. For all people. Holding doors open, holding elevators for people who are close by. It seems like common courteousy, but I seem to see it lacking with time.
So, I ask again, is chivalry dead?
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4 comments:
I don't think it is dead just not used all the time. Even today I noticed as I was entering the elevator at work someone sort of escorted the elderly and made sure the door reamained open and pushed the button for them too. Not all is lost, but I'm sure it's not as it used to be. ps Were you hoping for a seat from someone?
I don't hink it is dead either. It all depends on where you live and how you were raised. Living in Carleton Place I am still amazed at the helpfullness of people. When you enter tims, total strangers hold the door open for you. Does that happen in the big city? Anyway, it is nice to read your blog and see how you are you are doing. I am very proud of you and what you have accomplished. Love you very much.
I agree with your dad. It depends on how you were raised. I always notice and say thank you when someone opens the door for me. It's a small gesture that speaks volumes.
Ever since I posted this, I guess I have been looking for more evidence of chivalry everywhere I look. It is out there, just not for everyone. There are 2 examples on the bus - a young man took an empty seat on a crowded bus in front of 2 ladies and they were upset and gave each other a look and said "It's ok, he doesn't have a job". But then the same day on the way home I saw a gentleman offer a seat to a woman who was just entering the bus. I think it's also a choice. People expect the chivalrous treatment for themselves, but may not always show it in return.
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